How To Adjust To Your First Year Of Homeschooling
So, you have decided to take the leap into the homeschool world! First of all, congratulations! Homeschooling my kids has become one of the biggest blessings in my life, and I know it will be in your life too. It is completely normal to be nervous and feel overwhelmed as this is new territory for you and your children. Here are several tips to help you adjust to your first year and help you get off to a great start.
1. Set Realistic Expectations
This can be one of the biggest challenges for homeschooling parents when they are just starting out. It is important to remember that homeschooling is a journey and not a destination. Do not worry about trying to create a traditional classroom in your home, and honestly, you shouldn't try to. Instead, focus on creating a learning environment that works for YOUR family. No homeschooling family ever figures out how to school their child flawlessly. Set realistic goals and don't get discouraged if things don't go according to plan.
2. Develop a Routine
Children thrive on routine. They like knowing what they can expect for their day. Create a daily routine that works for your family. Now, when I say routine, I do not mean a ridged hour-by-hour schedule, but having a general routine helps keep your time and day organized. This can include set times for waking up, eating breakfast, starting schoolwork, and taking breaks. It will help your child feel more secure and make it easier for you to manage your day.
3. Connect with Other Homeschooling Parents
Connecting with other homeschooling parents can be a great way to find support, advice, and exchange ideas. Joining a local homeschooling group/co-op or attending homeschooling conferences can be a great way to meet other parents and build a community. It helps tremendously to have a mentor or friend who has already been through the journey and can help and offer wisdom throughout your own journey.
4. Embrace Flexibility
One of the biggest benefits of homeschooling is flexibility. This is one of my favorite benefits of homeschooling. Embrace this flexibility and use it to your advantage. If your child is struggling with a particular subject, you can spend more time on it. If they're excelling in another subject, you can move ahead more quickly.
5. Take Breaks
As you homeschool, it's important to take breaks throughout the day. Remember, you do not need to school your child for hours a day like in institutional schools. Depending on their age, just a couple of hours is sufficient. During that time, take breaks and go for a walk, play a game, or just relax. This will help you and your child recharge and stay focused throughout the day.
6. Know and Use Your Resources
There are so many resources for homeschooling families to use and incorporate into their programs. Utilize your community library, parks, museums, and historical sites. They often times have special events for homeschoolers and make for great field trips to add to your schooling.
7. Stay Organized
Homeschooling does require some organization. It helps to keep track of your child's progress, assignments, and schedules. Create a system that works for your family, whether it's a physical planner or a digital one. Staying organized will help you stay on top of your child's education and prevent things from falling through the cracks. It especially helps those families that live in states where they are required to put together a portfolio and report to their local school district.
8. Get Outside Help
There is no doubt you may feel overwhelmed at times, and that is ok and normal, especially if you're new to it. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. This can include hiring a tutor if you see a need, or even just having a friend whom you can ask for ideas and share victories and struggles with.
9. Be Patient
Finally, be patient. Homeschooling is a learning process for both you and your child. As you start your first year, allow yourself and your child grace and time to adjust to the change. They will need to get used to you now being their teacher. Make your expectations clear with them and be consistent. It will take time to find a routine that works for your family and to figure out what works best for your child's education. Do not be afraid to make changes if you see one is necessary too. Remember, you are in control and have the ability to tailor the program how you see fit. Don't get discouraged if things don't go according to plan. With patience and perseverance, you can make homeschooling a success.
As you start your first year of homeschooling, take these points into consideration. It is and will continue to be a learning experience for both you and your children. What is amazing is that you are going through it together and I have found that it creates an even stronger family bond. Keep your expectations realistic and most importantly, allow yourself grace! You will be a success!